{"product_id":"when-love-is-not-enough","title":"When Love Is Not Enough","description":"\u003cp\u003e\u003cb\u003eWhen Love Is Not Enough: A Memoir of Parenting, Trauma, and Survival\u003c\/b\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eWhat happens when love alone cannot save a child from their trauma? In \u003cb\u003eWhen Love Is Not Enough\u003c\/b\u003e, RJ Koehler shares a raw and honest memoir of one adoptive family's journey through Reactive Attachment Disorder, borderline personality traits, and the unhealed trauma of a young girl named Julia.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eJulia's early years left invisible wounds that shaped her identity, relationships, and ability to trust. What began as hope for a new start quickly became a cycle of manipulation, aggression, self-destruction, and emotional unpredictability. For years, her adoptive family fought to provide safety, structure, and love while surviving the daily crises her behaviors created.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eEven when Julia returned to her biological mother, the trauma followed, repeating the same painful patterns. This is a story of love and of letting go. It is the hard truth that sometimes saving someone is beyond your power, and survival requires courage, boundaries, and resilience.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003cb\u003eAlso by RJ Koehler: \u003c\/b\u003e \u003ci\u003eWhat He Didn't Break\u003c\/i\u003e, \u003ci\u003eChoosing Life After Loss\u003c\/i\u003e, \u003ci\u003eThe Weight of Silence\u003c\/i\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cbr\u003eFrequently Asked Questions (FAQ)\u003cp\u003e\u003cb\u003eWhat is reactive attachment disorder (RAD)?\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cbr\u003eRAD is a condition where a child has difficulty forming healthy emotional attachments due to early trauma or neglect.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003cb\u003eWhat are the signs of trauma in children?\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cbr\u003eSigns may include emotional outbursts, difficulty regulating behavior, attachment challenges, and intense reactions.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003cb\u003eWho is this book for?\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cbr\u003eThis memoir is for parents, caregivers, educators, and professionals working with children who have experienced trauma.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003cb\u003eIs this based on real experiences?\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cbr\u003eYes. This memoir reflects RJ Koehler's real-life parenting experiences and challenges.\u003c\/p\u003e","brand":"Rj Koehler","offers":[{"title":"Default Title","offer_id":50021968543994,"sku":"9798994036525","price":19.99,"currency_code":"USD","in_stock":true}],"thumbnail_url":"\/\/cdn.shopify.com\/s\/files\/1\/0840\/1253\/1962\/files\/imageloader_f7a301d1-8e3e-4e1a-84aa-cb6206b57686.jpg?v=1786140807","url":"https:\/\/mindsourcebooks.com\/products\/when-love-is-not-enough","provider":"Mind Source Books","version":"1.0","type":"link"}